6. Who Is That?
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In Japanese, saying あなた directly to someone can sound blunt or even rude. In everyday conversation, people use the other person's name instead, or just drop "you" entirely — the context makes it clear. You'll mostly hear あなた between married couples (a wife addressing her husband) or in formal surveys and signs.
Use 誰 (dare) when asking about a person and 何 (nani) when asking about a thing. A quick trick: if you could answer with a name, use 誰. If you could answer with an object, use 何. Notice that 何 changes pronunciation to "nan" right before です — so you'll say なんですか, not なにですか.
Japanese has blunter words for man and woman (男 and 女 alone), but adding の人 makes it polite and neutral — closer to "gentleman" and "lady" in feel. In everyday conversation, 男の人 and 女の人 are the safe, respectful choices.