7. This and That
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Japanese sorts everything by distance from the speaker. これ/この is close to you, それ/その is close to the listener, and あれ/あの is far from both of you. Once you spot this pattern, you can guess new words — どれ/どの always means "which."
In Japan, pointing at people or objects with your finger is considered rude. Instead, people gesture with an open hand, palm up. When you use これ, それ, or あれ in real life, use a gentle open-hand gesture rather than pointing.
You will often hear あの used at the start of a sentence as a filler — like saying "um" or "well" in English. It is a polite, soft way to get someone's attention or pause before speaking. It is different from あの meaning "that over there."